Written by Alfredo
... having lost my father at the age of 4 years has always made me think, since as a child, the time that I could finally give all that affection and fatherly love that were not from my father to my son / daughter and what has always made me very excited ...
Also, many people have always said that the birth of a child is unique and remains indelibly in my heart. Already know
arrival of a son, after three years you hope to arrive, excited me greatly, but the "storm" of emotions that I had on October 21 is something indescribable ... after two courses prepartum and seen many movies now believed to be "prepared", but to hear from your wife during the night while you sleep that perhaps "we", that got me my heart beat a thousand.
I have been for at least half an hour with indescribable tension, with tremors attacks like I'm in short sleeves in winter at the north pole ... but I was under a warm duvet to make you sweat ....
The first thing I thought was: "wow! If I continue to be in this state do not get there in the delivery room to support Elena ...." and instead passed that half hour my heart slowly began to calm down and returned a "rational" ... I could not "lose" because these magic moments were moments of tension ... too important: it was the birth of our son!
I'm surprised, within hours, the strange quiet that I had, even if sometimes at the thought that I probably would have seen Luke and finally start that my dream had finally had a child to be able, at some point in my life, give all that affection which I have no father to remember, I grew moist eyes ... maybe that's what made me be so quiet: it was making ... Elena
heartened me and tells me that it is true that the contractions, but did not seem such as to suggest that the time has come, but by noon since no person choose to go to the hospital ... of course I drive and Elena gets behind for more space ... every now and then peeped out from the mirror to see what it does and how it is ... I see that it is practically hugged the rear seat headrests and look back with astonishment to the drivers of cars that followed us to see this woman with his eyes looking toward their suffering!
Also, many people have always said that the birth of a child is unique and remains indelibly in my heart. Already know
arrival of a son, after three years you hope to arrive, excited me greatly, but the "storm" of emotions that I had on October 21 is something indescribable ... after two courses prepartum and seen many movies now believed to be "prepared", but to hear from your wife during the night while you sleep that perhaps "we", that got me my heart beat a thousand.
I have been for at least half an hour with indescribable tension, with tremors attacks like I'm in short sleeves in winter at the north pole ... but I was under a warm duvet to make you sweat ....
The first thing I thought was: "wow! If I continue to be in this state do not get there in the delivery room to support Elena ...." and instead passed that half hour my heart slowly began to calm down and returned a "rational" ... I could not "lose" because these magic moments were moments of tension ... too important: it was the birth of our son!
I'm surprised, within hours, the strange quiet that I had, even if sometimes at the thought that I probably would have seen Luke and finally start that my dream had finally had a child to be able, at some point in my life, give all that affection which I have no father to remember, I grew moist eyes ... maybe that's what made me be so quiet: it was making ... Elena
heartened me and tells me that it is true that the contractions, but did not seem such as to suggest that the time has come, but by noon since no person choose to go to the hospital ... of course I drive and Elena gets behind for more space ... every now and then peeped out from the mirror to see what it does and how it is ... I see that it is practically hugged the rear seat headrests and look back with astonishment to the drivers of cars that followed us to see this woman with his eyes looking toward their suffering!
enter directly into the delivery room was quite "traumatic", even though we had already seen and so it was quite "family" because we did not expect to "burn" so quickly ... even if the stages the end we have not "burned out" anything for how long we have been "locked up" in that room.
But the hours passed and there redevamo account ... between contract and the other was looking in all the ways to support Elena both morally and physically, giving them food when they asked me and / or support her in my arms when needed to hold on to something ... in the various classes during prepartum we were always told us that dad had to pretend even if we were worried, so as not to show our concern for his wife ... I do not know, but I have never bothered me during all those hours, except once at the end that Helen had no more strength to push as hard as it should, and Luke was now in a position that even with a C-section would not be possible to get it out there ... I asked myself: "How are they going to get it out if Elena can not do it ?"... perhaps it was a stupid question, but I'm worried ... if I did not know Elena to see, I guess not ....
The hours pass and I see Elena more and more tired ... I'm there next to her with a piece of gauze to wipe the sweat and admiration as "bear" the pain and fatigue ... the thing that reassured me in those difficult times was the monitoring of the heart of Luke every 15 min. about the midwife listening with a kind of eco laptop ... even in the toughest beats were always great ... but the midwife was amazed ... they were regular and it seemed that Luke did not suffer much even with the head now that it was there that we could see the hair ...
By now Luke was there, I saw my hair out and almost every one could see him push forward with the hair pretty much out, but when Elena spring for the fatigue came back here is that the head of that inch back into ...
They are 21.30 and after several times this situation almost out and in again, here comes the gynecologist "cabinet", with two shoulders as big as a longshoreman Elena ... soon as he sees looks at me and says, " no no ... I do not want this !!!", but "the closet" wash their hands and wearing shirts saying: "... OK ... now we do leave us!", sits in front Elena, who was sitting in the classic position from "gynecologist" position among other problematic enough to give birth, and says: "... come on ... take a good drive that I'll bring it out here!" I I open a thousand eyes, although there were also well 4 / 5 people all around Helena, but "pushed" to all the rest next to Helen on her right, and check that they do not make any intervention "strange" ... Elena at this point probably afraid of what they could do it, begins to cry with all the breath he had.
I understand that perhaps the fear of an episiotomy had brought out all the little strength that remained, and seeing if this drive was giving its results ... you ... .... I was giving them to the gynecologist puts her hands to broaden a little bit more and helps to prevent hang-head Luke ... I see the head coming out ... more and more ... Elena continues to push, this time does not stop ... I think "But where did all these forces before they could push more than a few seconds I hear ?"... Elena cries out:" Burn, burn, burn !"... is the "signal" that told us the 'midwife' when it burns is because the head is coming out ..."... continue to go out and see this pile of hair shaped like a cylinder that stretched out more and more ... here comes the front of the ... eyebrows ... the nose passing Elena ... you did it!! Luke is out now! Look at that nose and that
head oblong shaped watermelon with eyes moist with emotion and cry of Elena "is out! has passed the highest point! came out!" and I feel that the midwife says, stop now ... breathe ... ...."... Elena rest stops and midwives make a joke: "Look how much hair.! has whiskers like his father "... another which says:" Look what a beautiful pink skin ... as if he had not done anything ..."... I listen, but I do not care .. .'m looking at the cartridge that is out there for half and with closed eyes and say: "Luke ... breathe breathe breathe again .... why do not you ?"... then Elena arrives and pushes yet another contraction Angela ... the midwife who followed us for all those long hours that comes up and helps Luke to come out to gently grasp the head and neck floschhhh e. ..... ... like an eel out here that are completely ... 21:43 ... Luke was born. .. our son was born!
The first thing I thought was, "... but how could she be in the belly so big?" actually saw him come out in full, we realize that is large enough that it's a mystery how he could be there, but it distracts me now telling me that Angela should immediately cut the cord because she had seen the amniotic fluid was colored and a little better Luca him for a visit soon .... I agree ... but my attention was on Luke did not cry ... again ... then suddenly there he is does a little cough screaming and crying with all the breath ... I had wrapped in a green sheet and took him away ... I turn to Helen, I see that he is well and tell her that I'm behind you Luke ... I nods of agreement and I run into the next room crying: "I do not wash .. not washed !!!"... look at me all bewildered and ask me why, but that still does not explain your breasts and make me a nod that they agree ...
After the visit, put the drops in the eye and made the shot, the doctor tells me that I can bring Luke from the mother and gives me that little bundle in his arms with lightweight half-closed eyes, still stained amniotic fluid and some blood clot the hair, with a unique smell and eyes narrowed sticking by its cover, I take it and I went toward the delivery room .... the ten feet separating the hall from the delivery room visits were unique moments for me ... I watched that little bundle in my arms so tenderly and I thought about how I wish that my father was there at that time to know ... maybe Luke will have "heard" my emotion and opened his eyes looking at me with a look of tenderness as only children can have ... I made the strongest security and warmth for him and we looked for all the ten meters to the delivery room, when for the first time he saw Helen, I laid down on his chest and he was raised with the head and has been for a few seconds to secure both as if to say "you are my mom and my dad ?".... for the first time we were all three together ... we were embraced for the first time a family ....
After these unique and unrepeatable moment but I want to make sure the placenta is completely out and do a whole and look at the foot of the bed where Angela and I was sure the show: this album was perfect ... a red-brown gelatinous fed for 9 months ... our Luca "very well" and I think back to embrace Elena and Luca ....
But the hours passed and there redevamo account ... between contract and the other was looking in all the ways to support Elena both morally and physically, giving them food when they asked me and / or support her in my arms when needed to hold on to something ... in the various classes during prepartum we were always told us that dad had to pretend even if we were worried, so as not to show our concern for his wife ... I do not know, but I have never bothered me during all those hours, except once at the end that Helen had no more strength to push as hard as it should, and Luke was now in a position that even with a C-section would not be possible to get it out there ... I asked myself: "How are they going to get it out if Elena can not do it ?"... perhaps it was a stupid question, but I'm worried ... if I did not know Elena to see, I guess not ....
The hours pass and I see Elena more and more tired ... I'm there next to her with a piece of gauze to wipe the sweat and admiration as "bear" the pain and fatigue ... the thing that reassured me in those difficult times was the monitoring of the heart of Luke every 15 min. about the midwife listening with a kind of eco laptop ... even in the toughest beats were always great ... but the midwife was amazed ... they were regular and it seemed that Luke did not suffer much even with the head now that it was there that we could see the hair ...
By now Luke was there, I saw my hair out and almost every one could see him push forward with the hair pretty much out, but when Elena spring for the fatigue came back here is that the head of that inch back into ...
They are 21.30 and after several times this situation almost out and in again, here comes the gynecologist "cabinet", with two shoulders as big as a longshoreman Elena ... soon as he sees looks at me and says, " no no ... I do not want this !!!", but "the closet" wash their hands and wearing shirts saying: "... OK ... now we do leave us!", sits in front Elena, who was sitting in the classic position from "gynecologist" position among other problematic enough to give birth, and says: "... come on ... take a good drive that I'll bring it out here!" I I open a thousand eyes, although there were also well 4 / 5 people all around Helena, but "pushed" to all the rest next to Helen on her right, and check that they do not make any intervention "strange" ... Elena at this point probably afraid of what they could do it, begins to cry with all the breath he had.
I understand that perhaps the fear of an episiotomy had brought out all the little strength that remained, and seeing if this drive was giving its results ... you ... .... I was giving them to the gynecologist puts her hands to broaden a little bit more and helps to prevent hang-head Luke ... I see the head coming out ... more and more ... Elena continues to push, this time does not stop ... I think "But where did all these forces before they could push more than a few seconds I hear ?"... Elena cries out:" Burn, burn, burn !"... is the "signal" that told us the 'midwife' when it burns is because the head is coming out ..."... continue to go out and see this pile of hair shaped like a cylinder that stretched out more and more ... here comes the front of the ... eyebrows ... the nose passing Elena ... you did it!! Luke is out now! Look at that nose and that
head oblong shaped watermelon with eyes moist with emotion and cry of Elena "is out! has passed the highest point! came out!" and I feel that the midwife says, stop now ... breathe ... ...."... Elena rest stops and midwives make a joke: "Look how much hair.! has whiskers like his father "... another which says:" Look what a beautiful pink skin ... as if he had not done anything ..."... I listen, but I do not care .. .'m looking at the cartridge that is out there for half and with closed eyes and say: "Luke ... breathe breathe breathe again .... why do not you ?"... then Elena arrives and pushes yet another contraction Angela ... the midwife who followed us for all those long hours that comes up and helps Luke to come out to gently grasp the head and neck floschhhh e. ..... ... like an eel out here that are completely ... 21:43 ... Luke was born. .. our son was born!
The first thing I thought was, "... but how could she be in the belly so big?" actually saw him come out in full, we realize that is large enough that it's a mystery how he could be there, but it distracts me now telling me that Angela should immediately cut the cord because she had seen the amniotic fluid was colored and a little better Luca him for a visit soon .... I agree ... but my attention was on Luke did not cry ... again ... then suddenly there he is does a little cough screaming and crying with all the breath ... I had wrapped in a green sheet and took him away ... I turn to Helen, I see that he is well and tell her that I'm behind you Luke ... I nods of agreement and I run into the next room crying: "I do not wash .. not washed !!!"... look at me all bewildered and ask me why, but that still does not explain your breasts and make me a nod that they agree ...
After the visit, put the drops in the eye and made the shot, the doctor tells me that I can bring Luke from the mother and gives me that little bundle in his arms with lightweight half-closed eyes, still stained amniotic fluid and some blood clot the hair, with a unique smell and eyes narrowed sticking by its cover, I take it and I went toward the delivery room .... the ten feet separating the hall from the delivery room visits were unique moments for me ... I watched that little bundle in my arms so tenderly and I thought about how I wish that my father was there at that time to know ... maybe Luke will have "heard" my emotion and opened his eyes looking at me with a look of tenderness as only children can have ... I made the strongest security and warmth for him and we looked for all the ten meters to the delivery room, when for the first time he saw Helen, I laid down on his chest and he was raised with the head and has been for a few seconds to secure both as if to say "you are my mom and my dad ?".... for the first time we were all three together ... we were embraced for the first time a family ....
After these unique and unrepeatable moment but I want to make sure the placenta is completely out and do a whole and look at the foot of the bed where Angela and I was sure the show: this album was perfect ... a red-brown gelatinous fed for 9 months ... our Luca "very well" and I think back to embrace Elena and Luca ....
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